2 Months ago, My husband came home to find his friend eating in our house (I served him food because I usually serve them together when he visits – but this time he came when my husband was out). My husband walked in with a gloomy face and greeted us half-heartedly, then went straight to our room without a word.
I excused myself, leaving his friend still eating, & went to the room. There, I found my husband on the bed. I asked if he didn't see his friend and why he was upset. The next thing I heard was a loud sl-p on my face. I was shocked! I asked 'what did I do?" Instead, He gave me another harsh sl-p & started insulting me – asking why I gave his friend food and sat chatting with him while he was away.....
I was speechless. He pushed me & walked away.
I overheard him telling his friend he was going out & would see him tomorrow. I was too afraid to come out & clear the dishes until his friend left. He came back next morning, & when I asked where he slept, he told me to leave his house if I couldn't stay with him without questioning his whereabouts
I was angry because i don't know why he'll be angry with me over a little issue. So i left the house too to go sleep at a friends place and switched off my phone just so he know how it feels to ignore someone. I came back the next morning expecting him to apologize for his unreasonable attitude instead i came back and met my things and cloths parked and left in front of the house.
I called him and he ignored 3 times the 4th time he picked and told me to stop calling him and go meet his friend where I've spend the night. I was heavily angry. Why would he be carrying such in his mind. I couldn't go back to my parents home because i wouldn't even know what to tell them. So i took my bags and went over to that his friends place to explain everything to him. He asked me to stay there for s while while and wait for my husband to calm down first. I stayed there for 2 days. We where supposed to go meet my husband the 3rd day which was his off day at work. But unexpectedly he came to his friends place and met me there before we could get to him
Since then its been 2 months. Both families have tried to resolve the issue but he doesn't want to listen to anyone. He hasn't bothered to call nor talk to me. I'm back at my parents home and he doesn't seem to care. I'm confused & totally blank i don't know what next to do but I'm getting tired of all this Daniel. If you see getting to this extent of making this post is because I'm tired of everything'.