"I've been a single mom for 15 whole years before I married my husband. He accepted my daughter - this was a dream come true. I've always wished for a man who would accept my child.
Life as a single mom was not easy. My baby's daddy passed away due to an ac¡dñt when my child was just 3 months old. My mom, who was a teacher & had been supportive but also passed away when my daughter was age 4. Since then, I've solely raised my child without help, even from his paternal family, who had always doubted if their son was the one who got me pregnant cuz they never liked me.
Well, to cut the long story short, life hasn't been easy for me, struggling in this very harsh economy, doing everythn I can to see that my child & I survive from my puff & beans business. I was able to sort bills, put food on our table, & send my child to school. Luckily for me, I met my husband through my business; he came once to eat, & we connected from there. He accepted my child, & we later got married after about 10 months of dating.
Fast forward today, My 15yr old daughter & I now live very comfortable lives, we lack nothing - just 2 yrs of marriage, & the transformation is massive. I wake up every day feeling happy & fulfilled, with no more stress. Having maids that do all the chores, everything is at my beck & call; all I have to do is watch TV, eat, & sleep. In all honesty, nothing is as sweet as being rich & able to afford anything.
However, after all these things, I'm scared for the future. Recently, I found out my husband has been sneaking into my daughter's room. The saddest thing is that after I caught him, he didn't & doesn't even feel remorseful about his actions. The scariest part is that each time I confront him about it, he threatens me with a divorce if I continue to talk about it or mention it to anyone. Every time, he'll apologize & say he's sorry & that he'll change, but it keeps repeating itself.
I've had to take my daughter on 2 occasions to the hospital for an ãb""tì"øn. I got pregnant at age 21. At this age, where am I supposed to start from should i leave my marriage- it's obvious I might likely end up without a husband. if I should leave how would that look on me? A single mom, & a 36-year-old divorced woman. I've tasted poverty & suffering for over 15yrs of my life. Was I just born to be in poverty & suffering all my life?
I'm i just supposed to go back to suffering & poverty coz of my daughter? At this moment, I'm confused & not sure of what to do. I'm also human, a young woman whom also disserve a good life. One thing I'm very sure of is; I'm not willing nor ready to go back to my previous life of poverty & suffering. Every single mom knows just what it feels like to solely raise a child while struggling with financial difficulties. I'm just not sure of what to do. "
Disclaimer: This post is seeking advice & support for a sensitive situation. My page does not support child abuse nor condone violence or illegal activities. I'm sharing this story so the victim may get help, proper guidance & gain perspective.